I have to admit, things have been rough some days over here. Of course the new baby is a big adjustment for all of us, but there are other things too that have been causing sadness, stress, and anxiety. Mike and I have had our relationship tested, a new baby will do that for sure, but we are strong and communicate, things are much better. I love Mike with all my heart and we do our best as a couple and parents to be the best as a team and as individuals too. We are very lucky to have each other and life is not always rainbows and sunshine, you can’t think it is!
Just keeping it real, I feel some people think that bloggers have perfect lives, but you don’t see it all, of course we only share what we want on here. I like to share my life on here, but there are things that I keep off the blog too, just for privacy!
But you know what?
It’s ok to have stress, sadness, and other downs in life, because that is what makes us stronger and life is NOT perfect. Life is all about seeing the positive though and finding happiness in the times that are not so great.
I am healthy, have a beautiful family, have awesome friends, awesome sons, awesome husband, and knowing that always makes things better.
I think in life we focus too much on the bad and we forget about the good, we miss out on the good because we are too focused on things that are not good or are bringing us down.
Every day you wake up, no matter if it is a good day or shitty day, you need to be grateful and think of the good people and things in life.
Bad things will happen in life, you will get a broken heart, you will be hurt by others, you will have the rough days, and more. You have to just think in your head….
Any day is not promised in life, you have to live happy each day and live each day to the fullest. You would never want your last day on earth to be a unhappy day. Especially when the unhappiness is being caused by another putting you down or someone being hurtful to you! Something so small making you unhappy is not needed!
You need to live happy each day no matter what bad comes your way. You need to LIVE each day.
I know when I go through tough times, just thinking positive and thinking of the people I love, being grateful, and given another day in the world, always helps me.
Just want you guys and gals to all know, nobody is perfect, we all have our highs and lows, but maybe life can be a little better if you just focus on the positive and things and people that you have in your life.
Again, you don’t want to waste a day unhappy, it could be your last day and that would be so sad. Live happy friends!
Remember, I am always here for my readers! If you ever need to vent or just need a friend, always here as much as I can be!
I know this is a post with just words and not a typical post, but I just woke up today and felt this needed to be written. I felt maybe someone who reads needed this post today. <3